When Walking Away is Your Superpower: Cutting the Cords with Toxicity
There comes a moment when you realize someone’s presence in your life is no longer a gift—it’s a weight. A distraction. A projection of their own wounds masquerading as concern. This is the story of every woman who has ever had to cut ties with a toxic friend, only to watch them spiral into obsession, criticism, and manipulation the moment they’re left behind.
If you’ve ever experienced the energy of a woman who couldn’t handle your rise—who seethed in silence, waiting for the moment to strike, only to twist your growth into something ugly—then this is for you.
The Disguised Friend: When Jealousy Wears a Mask
This so-called “friend” played the part well at first. She offered support, shared resources, and basked in the illusion of sisterhood. But when the tides shifted, when she felt her grip slipping, the facade cracked. The real her stepped forward—not the wise, emotionally intelligent coach she claimed to be, but the wounded, bitter woman who couldn’t bear to watch another woman step into power.
She claimed to be an expert in emotional intelligence yet seethed with resentment toward every confident, aligned woman she encountered. She weaponized words, using passive-aggression, condescension, and twisted accusations to try and shake me. But what she didn’t realize? I had already cut the cords.
The Power of Cord-Cutting: Releasing the Ties That Choke You
Two days before she blocked me, I felt it—I knew her energy was heavy, and I wanted it gone. So, I did what any self-led woman does: I cut the energetic ties. I performed a cord-cutting ritual, clearing my space of her judgments, her gossip, and her negativity.
And like clockwork, she felt it. The moment my energy no longer entertained her, she lashed out. Blocking me. Then unblocking me. Stalking my content. Watching my moves. Reporting my Instagram account in a desperate attempt to control a narrative that was no longer hers to write.
But here’s the truth—she doesn’t get to decide whether she has access to me. I do. So I made the final move. I walked away for good, not out of pettiness, but out of self-respect. Because access to my world, my energy, and my empire is a privilege—not a right.
Emotional Intelligence is the Ultimate Power Move
When dealing with a toxic narcissit who's full of hatred that she even hates her own parents and every business mentor that's thriving (including me), the knee-jerk reaction would be to fight back. To explain yourself. To call them out. Trust me, it was tempting but emotionally, I am too stable for that childish high school behaviour. I am above that. You see, true power? True power is in knowing when to walk away. It’s in understanding that their rage, their bitterness, their attempts to tear you down—none of it is actually about you.
It’s about them. Their insecurities. Their inability to face their own lack of alignment. One cannot claim to be or claim to understand emtional intelligence if one is consumed with sending hate messages to another. More so, to someone who doesn't even have the time, space or energy to read them. It's like scream into space. Nobody is there to care.
And the most devastating thing you can do to someone who thrives on this type of drama?
Starve them of it.
There is no need to wish them well, no need to wish them bad. Simply wish nothing at all. Let the Univesre deal with them. They will become a distant memory at first until they become nothing at all.
There are people with trauma who subconsciously choose to show it through nasty behaviour, who believe that everyone should show them compassion. However when we show compassion to a narcissit, you empower them, they have you in their hands, they feed of your compassion and mistaken it for worry, empathy and attention. The best thing to do, is show them nothing at all. You can have compassion for them behind closed doors, but showing it to them will only fuel their hatred for you and their world - yes, they are in another world, another realm of negative low thoughts and toxic language and actions. That's not part of your reality, so avoid expression compassion. You'll only feed the beast.
Those with trauma cannot be forced to seek help and heal. They must first see within themsleves that they require healing. If you point it out, they will deny and fight you. It is up to them to see it for themselves. Let them be. Let them discover it though the way their father in absent, through the way their mother is distant and cold, through the way their friends disappear, through the way they suffer, through their own emotional pain. One day, they will awaken and realise, they are the creator of their reality and as such, they need to actively seek to heal. Nobody can push this on them. It needs to be their choice. How they do that, when they do that and if they do that is none of your business. And if they choose never to see and never to heal, that too is none of your business.
Let them be. Walk away. That is the best thing for you to do.
The Lesson for Every Woman Ready to Rise
If you’re reading this and you’ve dealt with a toxic friendship, here’s your truth:
When you feel the energy shift, when you sense the envy in their words, when you see them turning on every powerful woman in their path—trust it. Honor yourself enough to walk away. Block them if you must. Reclaim your space. Let them fume while you rise.
Because at the end of the day, a woman in her power does not chase. She does not beg for understanding. She does not waste her breath defending or explaining herself to someone who was never meant to sit at her table.
She simply moves forward. Unbothered. Untouchable. Unstoppable.
And that, my love, is exactly what ensures a woman moves up to her next level in life - by leaving the old outdated negativity behind with grace and class life a CEO Goddess.
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There comes a time when you stop explaining yourself. When you stop waiting for the ones who never clapped. When you stop tolerating watered-down connections that dilute your fire. That time is now.
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