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Melissa Genevieve Dennis 🖤
There is a strange phenomenon playing out online.
She says she dislikes you.
She rolls her eyes at your stories.
She never likes. Never comments.
But somehow—she never misses a post.
She knows more about your life than your closest friends do.
And if you dig deeper, you’ll often find her circling—watching, scrolling, lurking—day after day.
This isn’t hate.
It’s obsession.
And it’s one of the most unspoken, misunderstood dynamics in human behavior.
Most people believe hate is the opposite of love.
It’s not.
Indifference is.
What we call “hate” is often the mind’s defensive response to attraction, admiration, or insecurity.
It’s when your presence stirs something in another woman—something she hasn’t faced within herself.
She wants to look away.
But can’t.
Because you are the embodiment of what her soul craves, but her ego fears.
This is the shadow.
Carl Jung said, “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life—and you will call it fate.”
So she calls it fate when she "just happens" to see your content.
But her ego doesn’t realize—it’s her shadow seeking wholeness.
The Spiritual Truth: Ego Separates, God Unites
Whenever we act in judgment, resentment, or comparison, we are not just rejecting others—
We are rejecting our own divine origin.
God is not threatened by your sister’s beauty, business, or blessing.
So why are you?
The answer: the ego forgets who made you.
When you compare, when you criticize, when you obsess from the shadows—you separate yourself from Source.
And yes, when I say Source, I mean God.
I also say Universe.
Some say the Divine.
But let’s clear this up right now:
To the woman reading this who thinks spiritual people pray to trees—
No, babe.
We revere the energy that created the trees.
To the woman confused when I call God “Source”—
I am not reducing God to an idea.
I am expanding our understanding beyond a white-haired man in the sky.
God is not a figure.
God is the field.
The force.
The frequency.
“In Him we live and move and have our being.” — Acts 17:28
God is the quantum field.
The omnipresent creator of all that is.
The Universe. The Source. The Almighty.
Call Him what you will—
But know this: you are always in His presence.
And when you use your free will to judge, obsess, or envy,
You are not hurting the other woman.
You are severing your own alignment.
The High-Calibre Woman Doesn’t Compete
The self-led, high-feminine woman knows:
There is no competition.
She is not here to prove. She is here to be.
Her approval already came from God.
Galatians 1:10 (NIV)
“Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? … If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.”
This woman doesn’t chase trends.
She honors her gifts.
She builds her brand not to be liked,
but to be of light.
She knows:
“If I was created to lead, then I will lead with love.
If I was created to heal, I will hold space with compassion.
If I was created to teach, I will teach with truth.”
Obsessed but Silent? That’s Still a Fan
Let’s get something straight in the world of branding:
They don’t need to double-tap to be a follower.
If they’re watching, they’re listening.
If they’re lurking, they’re learning.
So don’t let the silence fool you.
The ones who “hate” you?
Are often the ones most magnetized by you.
Proverbs 26:24-25 (NLT)
“People may cover their hatred with pleasant words, but they’re deceiving you. They pretend to be kind, but don’t believe them. Their hearts are full of many evils.”
Don’t be fooled by energy that pretends.
But don’t fear it either.
The light will always disturb the darkness—until the darkness becomes aware of its own light.
The Healing? Surrender to God.
You will never stop judging, comparing, or feeling triggered until you surrender.
Surrender your identity.
Surrender your hustle.
Surrender your story of “not enough.”
You don’t become free by getting more attention.
You become free by aligning with your divine origin.
1 Corinthians 12:4–6 (NIV)
“There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them.
There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord.
There are different kinds of working, but in all of them and in everyone it is the same God at work.”
Your brand is not a show.
It’s a stewardship.
Use your voice.
Use your presence.
Use your platform as an altar.
Let this be your reminder:
If someone can’t stop watching you,
They’re not your enemy.
They’re your mirror.
Their soul is watching, hoping yours will show them what’s possible.
You were never meant to dim for anyone.
You were meant to rise for everyone.
And the ones obsessed with your rise?
They’re not demons.
They’re daughters of God still trying to find their way back to the light.
Forgive them.
Bless them.
And keep rising.
This is high-frequency leadership. This is CEO Goddess.
You Were Born to Rise—Not to Dim
If this spoke to your soul… you're not just here to post.
You're here to lead—in light, in truth, and in divine alignment with your Creator.
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