Attracting a Healthy Masculine Man

When I hear women say they don’t desire a man, I really hear “I want to take on the role of the masculine myself.”

The feminine needs the masculine energy to survive. It is the energy of logic, structure, security, safety and protection. If a woman doesn’t desire a man to play this part, it means she doesn’t trust men or know how to attract one to be able to provide this for her in which case she feels she has no choice but to take care of herself. She will hustle, chase, work, take action and “do” the things that are necessary to survive.

Regardless of if she claims to not want a man, or she claims that she doesn't need a man, she is in her wounded feminine energy. If this is you, keep reading.

Unlike the masculine energy, it does not require the feminine energy to survive. He (the masculine) can stay in the frequency of logic, competitiveness, structure, planning, action and the energy of doing. In this energy he can thrive without the feminine.

However, the feminine needs the masculine energy to survive.

In order for the feminine energy to create, it must feel safe, in order for the feminine energy to retreat and recharge, the masculine must be willing to provide for her needs so that she can rest. In order for the feminine to radiate and thrive, the masculine must be available and willing to support her needs.

Having the healthy masculine play his part in your life is the difference between surviving and thriving.

When a woman says she doesn’t need a man. It means, she is in her masculine energy. Therefore she is working to protect herself, she has structured her life to ensure she is well looked after, she plans for herself, she is providing for her own needs, she is doing all the things necessary to get what she desires.

A woman can play the part of both, but in the long run she will feel overworked, overwhelmed and run down if she is too much in her masculine energy. That’s due to the energy and actions of “doing” rather than “being” and attracting.

You may know a woman in her masculine energy, they are brilliant women, intelligent, resilient, hard working and strong. They are definitely common and they are the kinds of women you would want as a best friend. If you ever need anything you can rely on a friend in her masculine energy to come to the rescue.

However, these women are working far more than they should, they are taking far more action than most women should, they are giving more than they receive and they deserve to retreat, take a seat and let the masculine come in and sweep them off their feet. However society, bills, work, ambition, goals and general business prevents them from stepping into their feminine energy. Which is why it’s important that if you resonate with this energy yourself, you must be willing to do the inner work and make a conscious effort to embody the softness of the feminine energy when possible. This is done through activating the feminine energy. It’s a journey of self discovery.

Get clear on the two energies whilst knowing there is also a neutral energy, neither masculine nor feminine.

Masculine Energy Is: Doing (Action, giving, chasing).

Feminine Energy Is: Being (Feeling, receiving, attracting).

It’s easy to learn this concept but applying it into your everyday life until you fully embody it is a whole other story that I hope to share with you in my upcoming course. Stay tuned for more information as I birth this creation over the coming season.

When you are fully aligned with your feminine energy, you naturally attract a healthy masculine man—one who compliments your strengths, supports your growth, and values you deeply. Understanding how to step into this energy and why it matters is key to fostering relationships that are not only fulfilling but also beneficial to your mental and emotional health.

The Power of High Feminine Energy

Feminine energy is about receptivity, intuition, creativity, and nurturing. It's about being open, soft, and allowing yourself to receive, rather than constantly giving, doing, or hustling. When you are in your high feminine energy, you are in tune with your inner self, confident in your worth, and grounded in your values. This creates a natural magnetism that draws in the right kind of masculine energy—a man who is strong, supportive, and protective.

Why a Masculine Man Values Your Feminine Energy

A healthy masculine man is drawn to a woman who embodies her feminine energy because it complements his own nature. Masculine energy is about action, protection, and providing. It thrives when it can support and uplift the feminine, creating a harmonious balance that benefits both partners.

Here’s why a masculine man values your feminine energy:

Support and Protection: A masculine man finds purpose in protecting and supporting the woman he loves. When you are in your feminine energy, you allow him to step into this role fully, which not only strengthens the relationship but also gives him a sense of fulfillment and purpose.

Nurturing and Compassion: Feminine energy is inherently nurturing. A masculine man values this quality because it brings balance to his life. Your compassion, care, and emotional intelligence create a safe space for him to express his vulnerability, deepening the emotional connection between you.

Confidence and Self-Respect: When you are confident in your feminine energy, a masculine man recognizes and respects your self-worth. He is drawn to your inner strength, knowing that you do not need him to complete you but rather to complement you.

Creativity and Playfulness: Feminine energy is also creative and playful, qualities that bring joy and lightness to a relationship. A masculine man is naturally attracted to this, as it brings out his own playful and adventurous side.

Author

Melissa Genevieve Dennis

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